tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7716266031006082752.post1559113385439210075..comments2023-03-25T05:04:22.774-04:00Comments on Coping with SIDS: Am I Really THAT Awful?Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06978106493173201688noreply@blogger.comBlogger5125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7716266031006082752.post-9015098908401788912010-10-29T15:43:12.909-04:002010-10-29T15:43:12.909-04:00Writing about it helped me get some of that out. I...Writing about it helped me get some of that out. I think one of the things that frustrates me the most is that I never got the chance to talk, tell my side, or even have an opinion. Either I was cut off, or it was just assumed that everything that I said was wrong anyway. That brings angry tears to me. I know the blog entry will piss them off, but hell, they were already mad anyway. At least I got to say my part.<br /><br />My mom told me yesterday that I should write a blog entry and title it: "Who Should I Piss Off Today?" She also agreed that I probably couldn't have done anything right and that they came here looking for something to be angry at me about and when you're looking for something you usually find it.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06978106493173201688noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7716266031006082752.post-35390223698421524512010-10-29T15:36:43.623-04:002010-10-29T15:36:43.623-04:00I for one don't think it would have mattered w...I for one don't think it would have mattered what you did. You could have bent over backwards (and you shouldn't have done that anyway) and they still would have found something wrong with it. Look what you did on that last night-you left your sick kid at home and drove through a TORNADO WARNING in the rain to eat supper with them and the one wouldn't even come out their room. You did it to support your husband and that shows what a good wife you are. I thimk you should write a book about some of the craptacular things that people do to others that are going through a bad time. I think most people would be shocked that not everybody supports grieving families and that some people even make the situation worse by putting unrealistic expectations on them and being downright moronic. I hope you don't let this thing wear you down. <br /><br />If Pete's sister is reading this then I hope she doesn't let people wear her down either. You all need to grieve in whatever way is best for you and f* everybody else.RMnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7716266031006082752.post-79925683652921348402010-10-29T12:24:59.505-04:002010-10-29T12:24:59.505-04:00You are for sure a better person than me. Those ar...You are for sure a better person than me. Those are some of the sorriest examples of how you treated them badly that I have ever heard. Pitiful and petty. Maybe it was their age, maybe it was their culture, and maybe they were just living in some parallel universe. Can we PLEASE get Pete some good friends? I, for one, and SHOCKED SHOCKED SHOCKED that you only screamed once. My throat would be raw by now. Chas is right, too. You know what the story will be but does it really matter in the bigger picture what those people think of you? If it doesn't matter to Pete then don't let it matter to you, either.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7716266031006082752.post-24823859041836461442010-10-29T00:35:03.715-04:002010-10-29T00:35:03.715-04:00Thanks. That is much appreciated. :-)Thanks. That is much appreciated. :-)Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06978106493173201688noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7716266031006082752.post-17309463618431637072010-10-29T00:32:20.372-04:002010-10-29T00:32:20.372-04:00loved the blog post... you are so right about the ...loved the blog post... you are so right about the small mindedness, and the woe is me that will probably play out to paint you all as the bad guys, but WE, the people who've been here, know that isn't true. We know you all and love you all.... f* the rest of 'em!Chasity Bowlinnoreply@blogger.com