tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7716266031006082752.post4087204457447190721..comments2023-03-25T05:04:22.774-04:00Comments on Coping with SIDS: I Feel Like Nobody CaresAnonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06978106493173201688noreply@blogger.comBlogger6125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7716266031006082752.post-45597806386596357312012-04-15T07:01:42.907-04:002012-04-15T07:01:42.907-04:00We have never met. But I care.
My son died from SI...We have never met. But I care.<br />My son died from SIDS at 7 week four years ago.. I know the feeling of people not seeming to care and "moving on", when we seem to be stuck in the moment we lost them.<br /><br /> Holidays ( especially big ones like Easter) are always hard. Knowing what SHOULD be versus what is. No basket or egg hunt for my sweet son who would be 4 now, and it seems like world ( including my family) had forgotten him.<br /><br /> To the rest of the world, our babies were just babies. I think that people really don't understand what we have lost. But just know that you are not alone in thinking about your sweet Toby. I imaine our boys were in Heaven having the biggest easter egg hunt ever :-) ((((HUGS)))))<br />~Serena<br />www.babyangelsfoundation.orgSerenahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18048314414397234674noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7716266031006082752.post-81743534830910062482012-04-12T09:35:37.058-04:002012-04-12T09:35:37.058-04:00I careI careKYenglishhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10507613177862488876noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7716266031006082752.post-44437690623266537172012-04-10T21:29:13.065-04:002012-04-10T21:29:13.065-04:00I care. Toby is beautiful. Im sorry you don'...I care. Toby is beautiful. Im sorry you don't get to hold and kiss Toby. I'm sorry you don't get to watch him grow. I recently lost my son. When I feel alone or sad I read about Toby. I read about your journey. I read about Maxie. Because you write I know I'm not alone. I know Gavin is not alone. Ive never written a comment before.Suznoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7716266031006082752.post-59229277645099014152012-04-09T22:31:07.153-04:002012-04-09T22:31:07.153-04:00I clicked over from Maxie's blog and I actuall...I clicked over from Maxie's blog and I actually do so pretty often. I'm a random internet stranger but I care. I just feel stupid commenting, like it's probably not my place. But I think your baby is gorgeous, and I hate what happened to him and to you and to your entire family. I am appalled at some of the comments you've had to deal with. I'm so sorry that Toby died and I'm so sorry you don't have the support you need. It's not fair at all.Beccahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02253870130254723405noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7716266031006082752.post-64589558488823873482012-04-09T19:07:27.794-04:002012-04-09T19:07:27.794-04:00Oh Rebecca...I love you too and little Toby. I kn...Oh Rebecca...I love you too and little Toby. I know there are a lot of times I think of things I want to write and I end up not writing those things. Not to make excuses, but I believe a lot of people have good intentions and really are thinking about Toby - they just don't have the words and then for some it easier to avoid. I love Abby's words and I echo her feelings about Toby and Max.Katie (LukeGrantsMom)noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7716266031006082752.post-71822410080112485302012-04-09T11:45:05.805-04:002012-04-09T11:45:05.805-04:00Rebecca- I care. I know you know I care. I see Tob...Rebecca- I care. I know you know I care. I see Tobys little photo on your homepage and my heart seizes. I read about the other stuff going on in your life and I am overwhelmed for you. I often wonder how you manage and then I remember that we are all just managing. I hope the day comes when we can move beyond just getting by. I feel like as much as I complain about a lack of support, I am one of the lucky ones... Because it is easier to abandon us grieving parents than to embrace us. I won't abandon you or ever forget Toby. Never.Abby Levisshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15748394086960661826noreply@blogger.com